I have a really high IQ and a do really well in school, and I am always 100% super willing to help people out. The problem is, people use me (use is probably an overstatement, but still).
Every time someone asks me for help, I help them, period, no questions asked. But, this ruins my chances with girls. Whenever I have a crush, I make an extra special effort to help them (sadly, people know me for my smartness before I even meet them at my small school). Then, when I try to text them or ask them out, its always a no.
What can I do to stop this? Its an endless cycle. :(
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Sounds like you have too much free time if you can afford to help everyone out all the time. Join some clubs and societies, pursue something. You will have an actual reason not to help people most of the time cause you will be too busy making friends and getting to know people (including girls). People you talk to will do so because they enjoy your company, and not cause they want you to do their assignments.
It's not bad that people know you as being smart, it just depends on how you utilize that. If people see you as a smart person who uses their brains to maximize their potential and get far in life, they will respect you a lot more than if you just prostitute your brain out to them for a slight chance at a date.0