Ok so i dated this 24 yo single mother for a month, she goes hot and cold on me. During that we kissed, were intimate etc... had great fun, even slept in her bed , everything went great. then she went on a holiday back to poland for 18 days, in the beginning she texted me a lot, sending me pics from her and her daughter, gradually she grew cold. then the day she came back she texted me, i really didn't expect the text she did send me. she told me we can't be together, no reason nothing, so far i've gotten one excuse after the other. Every time i try to speak to her, she completely shuts herself off. When she is sad and i ask her, whats wrong, she answers, im just tired. When i ask her to talk with me, she says yes at first, then no, just to come back 5 minutes later, asking me what i wanted to talk about. and when we talk she backs down again. at work she does her best of acting like i dont exist, looking the other way ( thats not how someone acts who moved on already ), then she looks at me, even flirted with me once again. she likes some fb post i post, she seems to keep checking my fb profile, 2 days back we had a small fall out. after work i told her we need to talk, it really hurted me, and me angry that she acts like this towards me. she told me no, i told her , i dont deserve the way you treat me. i got home and posted a small notification on FB, ventilating myself, without insulting ofcourse. I wrote, without writing down her name, i complete had it with this, we had a great time, but its time to move on, and time for to look for someone who wants to be loved. i deleted that message 1 hour later or so. one day passed nothing from her, now she texted me, yesterday late in the evening, she did understand my post. Im still on her mind appearantly, she has bin thinking about that post for almost 2 days- My doctor suspects she has borderline, does she love to hate me, or hates to love me. some say she went with a different guy before me, what can and should i do
What does this girl want from me, she would act differently if she really didn't care about me?
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I'm 20 and a single mom...
Its hard trusting after a baby..
And she might want him because he's the dad if her baby no matter what..
She maybe also doesn't want to move on thinking the baby dad can change after jail time...
Trust its hard moving on from a guy who you have a baby with...
I've been there and I did the same as her I did it because I felt alone all the time I felt he was messing with me and didn't trust this guy being nice to me. But now I like him and he's over me so I can't do anything.0
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