This guy I had a fling with moved away a couple of months ago. We agreed not to do log distance but we have been keeping in touch. Recently he asked me to come up for a party he is hosting. I told him I could not make it for that date but that we could reschedule. He said sure and that I should come up in the winter ecause the weather is nice. The thing is I don't understand why he invites me up for such short notice and emphasizes the party and then tell me the next time I should come up is in the winter. I know his work requires him to do lots of travel and he's back and forth between cities but I am a bit confused as to why he doesn't want me to reschedule for a sooner time?
Most Helpful Girl
Because guys are dumb. That's the short answer.
The long answer, he wants you to put in the effort to come see him. I mean why isn't he driving up to see you? Forget about him... I mean if he wants you to come up and he doesn't care about your schedule then he's not that into you and kind of a jerk0