So during our first year of college my friend met this boy in one of her classes. He developed a crush on her. They got quite close, but when he wanted to ask her out, she friendzoned him. Just after he met her, he met me. After she friendzoned him, we got quite close. Talked a lot. He said I was more amazing than she ever was and that we clicked so much better and he was amazed at how well we got along. We talked and talked and eventually he said he had feelings for me.
I feel uneasy though, am I a rebound? Is that possible, to get over a crush so easily? I asked him one night and he said that if he got with her, he never would've dated me and gotten to know me...
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At that age, it is possible to jump from crush to crush. You're meeting new people every day, and meeting a new person can make you forget your last crush relatively easily.
But I'd just be careful when it comes to your friend. Until you fully trust that nothing will happen between them (because I truly feel that feelings never go away but just go dormant), I think it's okay to privately have your guard up. But publicly, you should trust him until he proves untrustworthy.
So go forward with it but just be prepared in case it tu0