So my girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and she lies to me every single day, over completely stupid things like i had enough one dat and we established rules (sounds stupid) but even with these rules she agreed on in place she is still lying and doing things behind my back. its gotten to the point where she will "swear on her mothers grave" and then she will do what ever it is she swore notto anyway. she is promising over and over again that she will never do itagain and each time i tell her: you say that everytime then do it again. and her reply is always: This time is different i was stupid last time and i have just had enough. is there a way to get her to stop without breaking up? or should i just say fuck it and dump her? i have been loyal all 2 years and never really done anything to hurt her. please help! and sorry for terrible spelling and grammar (typed this on a stupid blackberry phone)
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Your relationship for two years and you stuck with her for that long? You should have let her go! How can you let her continue to openly lie, you know she's lying and you still let that slide?
You can't get her to stop lying because she'll have to realize herself that lies aren't worth the time. She needs to see you won't let her lies always pass you left and right. You say you've had enough? Then let her go along with her BS! The more you keep letting it go, the more it'll happen and you just keep getting empty promises that it won't happen again.0