My best friend was honest with me this morning & told me that she doesn't agree with my life choices.
It has hit me hard & really got me down.
She said that I should not be friends with my ex.
I want to be friends with him because I don't want to completely lose him from my life. Even though it's killing because I still love him.
I also slept with this guy & am trying to start something with him. We text sometimes. She doesn't disagree with this part.
Yesterday I invited him around but he had an assignment due that night.
I sent a text asking if it was just that night or an all out rejection. I think I annoyed him because he replied snappily about how he was so busy. I haven't heard from him since.
It's stressing me out & I don't know what to do.
My friend disagreed with how much I always talk about the boys. But I have anxiety so things like this are always on my mind.
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I understand how you feel. When I broke up with my ex-gf, I was like a loser, I started to get along with this girl at work and somehow we both fell in love, but my brother didn't agree with me being with her, because he said my relationship with her was like a rebound (I am still a virgin) or some kind, he knew I was desperate because during the time, I was still heartbroken. So my relationship with the girl wasn't a real love, but just a recovery.. Its very complicated to explain.
In life, you are blind most of the times when you do things, you need your family and friends to observe what you are doing, and they will let you know the flaws you are in, and they will help you.0