You know the person you were pretty interested in and vise versa, but before you got to get close to them, have sex, go on dates, etc.. they disappear and stop talking to you?
Maybe they still has a lingering ex, or they weren't ready for anything serious, they liked you but became intimidated because they had other things to worry about in their life.
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Yes, this happened to me quite recently with someone who I thought I could be close to again but I'm not so sure now. I wouldn't say I obsess over it but it lingers on my mind when I'm deep in my thoughts. It hurts when you don't know why they've disappeared or stopped talking if I didn't get a reason for it. Not always is it necessary to give a reason to be told why but it'd put my mind at ease.
Eventually, I'll get over it and it may niggle at my mind from time to time but I can't stay stuck on why. I'm moving on with life no matter what. Maybe one day they'll tell me something and maybe not but onward and forward! :)1