Hey guys well i just want to know if i can have love and lust for someone I've been ina relationship for 2 weeks not very long i know but i love this girl to death i can barely make it without talking to her i care a lot she's perfect for me i dont care if we never have sex i just want to be with her , sometimes i want to have sex with her and i fantasize a little and i want to have sex but i dont want to develop lust beacuae i want to be with her for a long time and if i develop lust everything is gonna fuck up what do you guys think
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I think you need a certain amount of lust, to fall in love with any woman. If you didn't lust after her and find her physically desirable, I think she'd be insulted. It wouldn't be much fun for you, either.
I can't see anything wrong with lust developing, and I think it's necessary. Then again, I don't see anything wrong with first date sex either, where some people do. I've ended up married, after first date sex (it did take some years before we were married).0