I've dated a 24 yo girl who has a 7 yo child, and things went fine that 1st month, spending a lot of time, intimacy etc.. talking about her daughter etc.. then she went on a holiday, back to family and friend sin poland, her daughter was there allready for a month, so we dated for a month without any interferance. that made things a bit easier, in the beginning she texted me a lot, sending me pics and she got more quiet after a while. so the day she got back , she texted me , that we can't be together, out of the blue and no reason. i think there are multiple factors influencing her, but every time i try to figure out whats going on she blocks me off. one moment she seems reluctant to talk to me, and 2 minutes later she tells me not to talk, or when we talk, she is holding back. ( I've talked to a doctor about me, and about her, and he, as well as some of my friends, think she has borderline ). the father of her child was 6 yo older when they hooked up, she was 14 he, 20, she got her child when she was 16, they stayed together for 9 years, he is since this year in prison for 5 years. she seemed to be really into me, but when we saw each other for the first time agian on our work, she acted cold. later she flirted with me once more, now she acts cold, sometimes she gives me a glance but in general, her attitude is like this. she loves to hate me, and hates to love me. I've done nothing wrong to her, and last time we had a small fall out, i had enough of these games, and told her, that i didn't deserve this treatment. later i posted a small message on my wall, on fb, but deleted it rather quickly. she did read it and informed me 1 day later, in the evening, rather late, that she did read it. i didn't answer, next day, she did send me an angry message no idea why, just out of nowhere, didn't respond to that either. i waited for 2 days, to try start a short convo, she answered fast. then next day, i did send her a small line, and now she completely blocked me. wtf..
What should I think of her behaviour, it actually really pisses me off. help me out girls... is it me or is she just weird ( borderline case? )?
What Girls Said 1
Guys say girls date jerks but fail to see that they're hung up over "jerk" girls too. She sounds like she has no clue what she wants from you. Her hot/cold behavior indicates this. She probably likes the attention and thrill of knowing you like her. Another thing... she seems to enjoy playing with your emotions. My big question is why are you still hung up over a person like this? She has issues clearly and a very bad personality so to me it makes no sense why you are still trying to figure her out when it's obvious that she is just crazy and can't be that serious about her emotions to you. Her behavior is not normal for someone who supposedly likes you. She seems to just take advantage of your emotions which is NOT love but rather a ego thin for her. Stay away and move on.1
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