I hear people say that if you don't find the opposite sex of your own race attractive or you just EXCLUSIVELY date other races but yours, then that means you not only hate your own race but hate yourself as well. Has anybody ever said that to you and if they did, did you take offense to it?
Just because a person don't find the opposite sex of their own race attractive, doesn't mean they hate themselves. I guess if a overweight woman is not attracted to overweight men she hates herself? A short woman who isn't attracted to sort men, hates herself. What's the difference here?
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I agree with you, I don't date black men only because I've had so many bad experiences with black men, how they want me to be as white girl as possible. while white men are nicer and love my different hair, and my body, and yeah just overall, that's why I don't date black men.
but I totally agree with you, I don't hate myself. some people do and that's why they date a different race, out of insecurity, but me personally, I don't date black men because they are mean, they don't like the natural look, unlike whit men who like you for who you are1