My bf told me he is the jealous type and protective when he is in a relationship. He doesn't want me to have any guy friends. I can't even text them. He said he doesn't talk to girls or hangout with them when he is in a relationship. Is this normal or ok?
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It depends on how extreme he is about it. This sounds kinda extreme and I met a girl who had an extreme case like this. I met her at work and she was willing to go to the gym with me at first then suddenly as we texted she kept saying no which confused me. I find out her boyfriend was taking her phone and he even threw me in her block list. She showed me her block list and it was huge! I felt like she was being completely controlled by him.
Now I feel these types of guys can only really date ultra commitmentholic types of girls if you know what I mean. I personally wouldn't go nuts but I would say boundaries with guys are definitely needed. If I had a girlfriend who was wanting to go to dinners 1 on 1 with guys I'd think she was going on dates. But a mere male coworker texting about work tomorrow shouldn't be some cause for alarm.2
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