my boyfriend is in jail , well he's a trustee now , i wrote him a 6 page back and front letter , breaking down my life and it was a real positive letter i got really into the emotions and it was a side of me i never told or let him see... anyways , when he writes its always a 1 page front only letter, and it really annoys me. he never gets deep into emotions and it has always upset me because im a person that likes emotions weve been together for 3 years , when i visit him Sunday i feel as though i dont want to talk to him because he didn't respond back to a letter where i really let my wall down and told him who i was really was, im hurt and feel stupid for taking the time to do all that. Should i even go visit him? he told me to write him but then doesn't reply back with nothing more than i miss you i love you blah blah.. for me since im a write i really write when i send letters i dont write bs letters. hell be out in December he just went in august. no felony because its his first offense he's 24 im 22
Never did write back to my long letter?
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i think for you hanging in there and being by his side threw all this i feel like he realizes it and appreciates it when you in jail you half to stay strong through out it i feel he rather show you his emotions in person then over a letter i really think he will stay by your side for staying by his throughout his time in jail i think you should try making him a better person not changing him but keeping him on track and focusing on his life more and he could do that by hanging out and spending his time with positive people like you i kinda feel like you are the only one there for him in jail and u do expect more in a letter because you doing a lot staying by his side while he's in jail i know things maybe tiring and stressful but im sure you guys will work it out together in person i feel like the letters won't matter when you guys get to see each other again and hang out0
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