This guy recently asked me out and he's a navy pilot. I really really like him because he's so caring and charming and I have so much respect for him. However, I come from a military family and I really hate the stress when someone you love is away and not knowing if they will come back. He said he'll be deployed next year and I don't know if I want that stress again (I know it's selfish).
So should I just take a chance and go out with him risking that my feelings will grow and he'll be sent away. Or should I not go out with him:(
Btw, I am 24 and he's 27 so we are not young kids lol.
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Personally, I like maroon better than navy and dolphins better than seals. But whatever...
I can't tell you what to do here girl. No one here can. It's your heart, your life, you're the one who knows from firsthand experience the stress you've mentioned. Sorry to not be of any help, other than to make you smile a bit, I hope :) but I doubt that anything anyone says here on this matter would be of help to you. Unless there's someone who have been through the same thing and can give you some input. otherwise, do what you feel in your heart to be right.0