I am thinking about just living my life and working towards being happy on my own, getting some friends, etc and instead of trying to look around and see which girls to ask out, to just accept that when the time is right, she will naturally walk into my life.
Other than that, if I develop a crush, I'll talk to her and see if something happens. If there's a girl that starts talking to me and showing interest, great. If I by coincidence bump into a girl and we hit it off, great.
But I think I am done trying to chase and actively look for girls. It's emotionally and mentally draining, even when you haven't gone on a date.
I'll just stay true to my dreams and know that when the time is right, life is destined to allow my girl to enter my life.
From what I hear, some people say that doing this is actually more likely to make you run into a COMPATIBLE partner because you're being yourself and then the girls you attract as a result are attracted to the true you so it all works out and makes sense and is aligned.
What do you think? Is it better to just forget "dating" or trying to "get dates", live life, and accept that when the time is right, the girl of your dreams will come into your life?
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Live life man! Serial dating leads to 2-month I thought we loved each other relationships. Then every girl is a comparison to the past girl and the girl that you imagine to complete your true love fantasy. Not to mention I'm sure at least half of the girls you've dated complain about how many you've dated or slept with. Makes people really uncomfortable and that's where they start drawing conclusions and re-evaluating their opinion on you... Then the bad arguments and breakups follow. The I need to find myself speech. No one wants a serial dater their views on relationships are skued because of it. Relax your heart, mind, body, and soul. You'll land on the right flower bumblebee!! Salut!0
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