How can you find out if a guy you meet at a bar or night club wants more then just sex? I have dated someone that i met at a party, but thats over a year now, and all the other guys i have met while going out just wanted sex.
I have met guys at clubs and they have aksed for my number, but i never hear from them. And yes i know its a very bad place to meet guys, but where im from its not reallyh that normal to walk up to girls or guys on the street, or at a cafe etc. Its more exeptable to meet them when your at club/bar etc, or school/work. And since i dont go to school and that everyone at my workplace are women in the ages 30+ and dont see how i can meet someone there.
So if i met a guy and we talked for a while, and he didn't ask for my number or facebook, does that automatically mean he only wants sex/he just want mer or that night, or can it mean other things? for exemple if i have to ask for his number or Facebook etc, does that mean he doesn't want to know me/hang out or whatever or could it be because he dont know if i like him or not?
My best friend started talking to a guy at a club, and she had to take control most of the time, but he would say things like "oh you need to show me around " etc. So she meet him 3 days later for coffee (she had to ask him), and she had to start the converstaions most of the time later on, on snapchat or facebook. Later that week she offered to drive him home, so they went to his place, and they made out. But he still didn't start comverstaions, text, send snap or anything and he never asked of they could hang out, even when she put the ball in his court. So he seemed intrested, but at the same time not. And by the way she was the on to ask him for his Facebook at the club.
So any advice?
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You don't give up sex right away, that's how. I would say to simply ask the guys if they're looking for more but obviously lies exist for a reason. By abstaining from intercourse you're telling the guy "I'm not looking for meaningless sex, so you're not going to get it". If they keep contact with you for more than a week that's probably a good sign.0
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