What do you think? My theory is that if two people are right for each other, nothing more will be required than a meeting between the two for them to end up together. In other words, if two compatible people meet and therefore like each other, they will end up together. The notion of, "If only I had done this or flirted or whatever, I wouldn't have gotten friendzoned," I am theorizing, is a fallacy because if you two were meant to be, he or she wouldn't have placed you in the "friendzone". And you wouldn't have "forgotten" "to make a move" or "flirt". If he or she was right for you, it would have all unfolded naturally, maybe not instantaneously, but in eventuality (so if it's still early on, don't lose all hope, but then again, don't tie yourself to this person).
In other words, you should forget about trying to do all these things to attract him or her and just talk for the sake of talking and if it's meant to be, it will happen within eventuality.
I also hypothesize, if this theory is correct, that this is the reason for so many unsuccessful relarionships. A lot of them may be as a result of one person "trying" to do something to attract the other so it wasn't organic and therefore, the relationship would be destined to fail.
What do you think?
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short of making sure you dont ignore the person or act like the sight of them makes you sick.. yeah i agree. all the hope to get them is all marketing bs and your relationship ends bc you're with a stranger. you ultimately realize you font like.
thats why i dont like dating. bc people sell themselves in a short period of time.
i prefer friendship first.
i usually can tell when people are trying too appeal to mew rather than being themselves.. its a turn off. and i would never do that bc its so embarrassing and awkward. the crazy stuff people will do in attempts to find a mate when they could just join a group or class or meet people through activities.. i just find it so tacky.
when i meet someone i know right away if there's chemistry. if they turn out to be a good person thats pretty good. then no reason not to give it a try,0