If you are my age and single people automatically think something is wrong with you. Have they not considered maybe that woman has morals? I see a lot of baby mamas, divorced women and I am not about that life. I want to be with someone who is hubby material not that will knock me up and leave.
now if I let go of my standard and dated anyone... people would say its my fault if something bad happened. For example... I hear people say baby mamas chose those men so its their fault they chose the type of man that leaves.
ok? Then why do people hate on a woman that has morals and standards? I have people telling me to change myself or pretend to be something I am not just to get a guy. Don't they know that attracts the wrong guy. Sooner or later the real you comes out after the wedding and that's when divorce comes along. How about I just meet a man who matches my personality by being myself?
If I am single I am crazy... if a guy is single he is just enjoying bachelorhood. Fyi there are just as many crazy guys as women. Look at these men beating and killing their wives. Do you really want that beside you in bed? Opinions please!!!
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It isn't always women that are blamed. Anyone that is alone can be viewed as having some flaw or unrealistic standard that keeps them alone. Anytime something goes wrong either gender can be blamed for ignoring the red flags that were present. You aren't a single guy so you just aren't' hearing or paying attention to what people say about single men. Single guys on here that complain about being single get ripped apart all the time, just like the women do.
There are some double standards, but this isn't one of them. If a person is alone, we can assume one of two things. Either it that individual is at fault, or every other person on the planet is at fault. It is hard finding the right match, but it can be done.0