This guy i met is absolutely great, I've never had someone treat me so well. He's been perusing me for a month while i was seeing someone else. Now that im done with the last jerk I've finally realized how he is a great man and id be stupid to let him go, but im not completely attracted to him. Don't get me wrong he is a good looking guy, but i guess he's not what i usually go for. How do i get over this?
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I am sure you have heard guys complain that women are attracted to jerks. While they do exaggerate it, there is also some truth to it. Jerks show many qualities that women find attractive. Such as being confident enough to challenge the woman. If a guy is too nice he can end up looking like a kiss ass, and the woman will lose respect for him. Women need to be able to respect the guy in order to remain attracted to him. So the stereotype of women being attracted to jerks is based on some facts.
I think the real question is can you learn to respect, him enough in order to override the fact he is not a jerk that constantly challenges you? I think this is one of the bigger problems women have, that they don't realize. If a woman can't find a nice guy she is attracted to, it is because she is more attracted to jerks than she wants to admit. I would try to find other qualities that he has, and try to have a greater respect for those traits.0