I know I ask a lot about online relationships but this is serious! I met this guys I'm dating and he lives 2 hours away from me. He says he really loves me and he treats me so well but I have a problem! I mean I really like him but we Skype every night and he always just sits playing computer games ignoring me and it's not a proper relationship! We haven't met yet and it's going to be a while before we do! My mum talks to him online to keep an eye on us but I don't think I want to be with him anymore! Basically I met another guy who lives like 20 mins from me and he wants to meet up with me in two weeks time and he is also closer to my age! This thing is I don't know if he wants a relationship so should I meet up with him and find out and if he does then dumb my boyfriend or should I dump him first? It's just if he does want a relationship it would be easier to see him as he lives so much closer. I feel so bad dumping him as he so amazing and he does a lot for me! Plus I find it super awkward telling my mum that I've dumped him when she seems to really like him!
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maybe you should meet up with this guy and talk on a friendly level, get to know him... ask what he wants for his future... cough.. cough a relationship... just be subtle about it, you'll find out what he wants. As for the other poor guy i say you should just dump him even if this guy doesn't want a relationship. Maybe you just like him as a friend and you like the idea of a bf, but saying that you'll dump him this easily for another dude, i think it says it all. Plus you haven't tech met yet, so maybe if it doesn't work out with this new guy you can officially meet the first guy and maybe start over.0