Me and this girl have been somewhat together (we've expressed our feelings toward another, but she says she's been hurt from a previous relationship). It's been close to 3 months since she said that and we are Seniors in high. school. We usually give each other intimate hugs and have lunch together everyday.
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1. Do it privately, but not like in a creepy way. Maybe if you two go for walks or something and there's a nice quiet place, then do it there.
2. Don't be abrupt about it. For example, don't be in the middle of a conversation and be like "Hey, can I kiss you?" because then she'll be really surprised and it might throw her off and just say no. Wait for a lull in the conversation. Look for signs like her look at your lips or being sort of nervous. Look into her eyes for a couple seconds and then say "Would it be alright if I kissed you already?" like you just can't wait to kiss her but you still want to be respectful to her about it (which is pretty much your situation).
3. Don't go straight for a make-out. Like geez, man, be chill. Just something short and sweet and when you two pull away from each other and she's smiling, then it might be okay to do something a little more passionate.
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