we were dating for 1 month, then she left on vacation, she was really into me. in the beginnign sending me picstures, texts, later she grew quiet. now i found out she has a bf there, but she doesn't really seem to love him. she told me before telling me she has a bf there,( yeah they have a relationship within 2 weeks)... that her mother was telling her to get a bf, ( she is a single mom ), she knew this guy, allready way longer. when she talked about him, she said she wasn't sure, being alone is better for me she said. yet she asks my new adress, which she first declined, when i tried to give it to her. then she tells me she's alone , and looks a bit shocked when i tell her im not home this weekend, not in town. she deblocked me from fb, and today we had a small conversation. i texted her, what are you doing, this evening, she told me that i can't come to her place. she didn't say no. so later i texted her, you can come to me, she said, she was tired and had to work tomorrow. i told her , we have monday, tuesday, wednesday.. she responded by saying hmmmmm ( what does this mean , hmmmm) its not a no, i always thouhgt it ment, something like yummy, but opinions differ there. so her actions tell me she wants to see me, but i dont know how to aproach it the right way to get her over. she knows im in town monday, and i can wait till she is ready from work, drop by a bit later , and ask her at the door if she likes to come over, that i pick her up later, or just call/text her... hey im in town, wanna come to my place... i feel more like the personal aproach, because its more convincing... any tips, she acts like she wants me over, or see me, but its like i have to convince her, take the lead... what aproach should i take, i still feel she has feelings for me, and thats very confusing to her.
Ok , she got me really confused?
What Girls Said 1
She's one very *ucked up girl, honestly saying. She's not a grown up, right? 14? 15? That's not even dating, and it's not your fault.
If you want to get attention from her:
Ignore her. Don't write her, don't ever initiate conversations. Due to girls' selfish nature, she will try to do it herself. Let her approach you herself. Answer her with basic phrases. Trust me, she will get interested. Then get more and more friendly.
Run away from her and never think of her again. She's just childish and selfish.0
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