I ve been with this guy for over 4 years now, but i m still very unsure about him. I cannot think of marrying him n spending another 10-20 years with him. I mean the guy is alright.. but i m just soo scared to get into a final commitment. He has always been there in my worst times. He is caring and loving.. but sometimes i feel he is smothering me with all the love. He doesn't do it intentionally but i feel suffocated. And even after every breakup i m forced to go back to him because he gets really sick and gets hospitalized right after the breakup. So m forced to go back to the relationship. There are a whole list of things i can't stand about him.. like for the fact that its sooo difficult for him to open up his heart and tell me if somethings been bothering him. He keeps it all hidden inside and is not a very good sharer... which pisses me off.. Our conversations dont seem to go anywhere and it has gotten pretty boring. He tries to change his character but he seems to go back to his original self after a week or so of being a good responsive boyfriend. What do i doo? I m confused.
Feeling unsure about my boyfriend?
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Everyone deserves to be happy in there life , it strikes me you have tried very hard to talk to this guy and communication is key in every relationship. I think you have a very tough decision to make but reading your post I think you have just about made it and you are just looking for a bit of moral support. I think you are right to move on , the key is not to go back to him when he try's to get you back being strong and striking out on your own.
You don't mention sex so I assume that it's ok or is this also part of the issue?0
Take a break from the relationship?0
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