My boyfriend of over a year just broke up with me, and it was really random. He texted me one night and said that he needed a litle break to just think about things...he said that he wanted to miss me and realize how much he loves me. So, I gave him some time... a week later he texted me again saying that he just doesn't think its going to work out, that its not me, its him. He said that he just can't see me as a girlfriend anymore...which is completely bull crap. His friends say he still has feelings for me, but he recently asked a randomy girl he doesn't know out on a date. I know for a fact that we can work things out and we could be happy again, but he won't give me another chance. How do I make him realize that things could work between us and that he shouldnt let me go. I gave him everything I had, I mean everything. (cough cough). So how do I make him realize that I'm the one he should be with?
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probably should just move on but if ur determined. remember people want what they can't have! Getting him bk might take some time. Give him his space for now, then after possibly a few weeks and call him to reestablish a friendship. Say something like I want us to be friends, just friends. Invite him to go get coffee or something if he says no just say alright and let him go again for now then make the next attempt after a few more weeks by inviting him to do something with a group of friends that are both of ur friends and just work on the friendship. after you successfully get 5 friend dates on the 5th one pull the you have an eyelash trick and brush the invisible little sucker off his face. you should be able to tell from the reaction of ur touch if he still has feelings for u. if he does this is the time to start flirting and make ur self look interested DO NOT ask him out on a date. you may work it all you want but you make him ask you out. meanwhile try casual dating where you go to dinner with a guy but don't start actually dating any one. this will make him jealous and get you one foot out the door so u'll be prepared either way. If he asks you out great if not You have already re entered the dating life.0