I told my friend that I thought a guy in our classes was cute and he told me that I shouldn't get into a relationship because I seem like I would be a clingy girlfriend and that guys don't like that. He has only known me for about a month so I don't really understand why he would say that. I have never had a boyfriend but I don't think I would be clingy if I did have one. Is there any way that I could make people not think this way about me?
Most Helpful Girl
fuck him lol seriously. the word clingy has no actual meaning. it just means one person doesn't like the other as much. so w/e that person wants seems liker too much. when you're compatible neither of you will seem clingy or distant or w/e.
your friend either is jealous and wants you for himself or he's on a power trip and insulting you makes him feel better. maybe he's not feeling great about himself.
the word clingy is meaningless,. anyone who really has something to say will say hit in more than two syllables., if they won't then they respect you enough for you to be giving them two seconds of your attention.
seriously. just the fact someone uses the word clingy as / in place of an explanation is a HUFGE red flag, dump anyone who uses it or dont get involved in the first place.
all we know about what the guy said is hat HE is not bf material.
respect yourself respect others dont let others define you. and dont listen to bullshit as if its advice.2
- Show AllShow Less