I've tried plenty of fish extensively for the last 5 months and it's just a complete waste of time. Girls on there aren't serious at all. I'd like to date and find a gf, but I have no idea how. I have no friends at all right now and that's like the primary way to get setup with girls. Any tips? I'm tempted to go to the bar, but it feels weird since I have no friends and don't want to go alone. Any tips?
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Yeah, going to the bar alone can be sketch because it's comes off as you possibly having no friends unless it's at a time when you possibly came after work etc.
Don't expect miracles and you'll get huge success. Just ask girls questions at places that the girls on here have suggested: supermarket, coffee shop, gym, campuses etc. Flirting with girls during the day in non social settings has to be incredibly innocent because they aren't there to be hit on like a bar or club but it's much better because girls take you far more seriously. Most guys overthink this because they assume girls don't want to be flirted with and don't want to meet guys but they desperately do depending on the guy but again you just ask her questions at first as if you need directions etc. because compliments will make things too intense and they aren't looking to get fucked in the next hour.
a girl's needs aren't complicated they just want a guy who's attractive, has confidence, and isn't going to use them for sex. If all you want is sex, you can easily change gears and ignore her and she may want to give you sex to keep you or may just be a nympho but if you want a girlfriend you will start to have a lot of numbers and dates. just keep asking those boring questions that makes you look like mr. charming who's lost and needs help then advance slowly.0