Guy I've been seeing for two months assured me yes, he still had the Tinder app but he doesn't go on it. I told him a little after I had met him that I deleted it but when he started to seem distant I got it back. Apparently I matched with one of his friends. He caught me out and I told him the honest truth about why I joined it again. Then I told him I had deleted it for good. But it's been a month since then and we've gotten closer. We meet up like twice a week and talk on the phone for hours- 4 hours just two nights ago. Two dates ago he thought I was being suspicious with my phone and straight up asked me if I was seeing other guys. Apparently it's ok, no he wouldn't like the idea, but since we're having sex he has to be careful with STD's. I told him it was my mom I was texting (It was!!) and he said he believed me. But then I made this fake Tinder, found him to be active not too long ago AND matched with him :( So he is actively on Tinder. I messaged him on it and if he responds, I don't know what to do. Because he straight up lied to my face. I have never lied to him. Me rejoining Tinder was just with-holding info. Besides, we still say we're casual... yet commit to only hanging with each other. What do I do?
Like,.. he lied twice.
Most Helpful Guy
so you two are just dating? well I wanna say its okay if he's keeping his options open but its not because he basically went against his own words and is being a hypocrite lol. basically, he's not going about it the right way. seems like the controlling type fosho but I don't know enough to properly judge fyreals.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would confront him about it, though gently.0