Do you go into looking or having another relationship with a positive outlook or a negative outlook based on your past relationships? Is it harder to let someone in when you have been so brutally, emotionally hurt? How do you overcome such emotions and over look these feelings when your "in search" of someone?
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Not paranoid, just gave up. After two decades of being Mr Friend Zone because I was not a bad boy or a worthless criminal scumbag, I gave up on women. Funny thing, once the women and I passed the age of 35 women began to hit on me, which was an amazing experience for a man who had gone years between dates.
What had happened was that the nightclub princesses had grown a brain and begun to look for husband material, once they realised that the "exciting" bad boys had little to offer outside of the trailer park or wefare housing project.
After almost two decades of being alone, rejected and feeling as though my guts had been ripped out when I saw a pretty girl with an obvious scumbag, I did not feel inclined to fall to my knees and worship at the altar of the vagina because women had experienced a flash of the bleeding obvious. To borrow Rhett Butler's final line in Gone With the Wind: "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn."0