So I'm dating this guy
And he replied, "thanks" in a text after I told him I don't care about my ex and I only want to be with him.
The guy I'm dating doesn't like it when I bring up my ex he thinks my ex is a loser
So my guy friend suggested that if I want the guy that I am dating now to chase me and be in a relationship with me, he says I should not text him back
And ignore every text message that says "hi" or "goodnight" for as long as it takes until he ask me if he did something wrong or something along those lines.
And my guy friend said reply that everything is cool if the guy I'm dating seems concerned.
He says that this made him chase after a girl because she said he was busy and he felt that if he didn't get into a relationship with her then he wouldn't hear from her again.
My guy friend says that if he talks to a lot of girls who say I want to be with you then he sees no reason why he would settle down with that girl
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No, do not listen to your friend--that is really poor advice (he sounds really immature). Any guy with any level of self-respect is simply going to brush you off completely and move on to another women.
And why are you trying to "get him to chase"? He's already dating you! Stop playing mind games, they will only sabotage your relationships. Mature people don't jockey for status--they're just valuable as they are.
You want him to understand you have options? Then **have** options and don't call attention to it--it will show just because it's the truth. You only want to be with him? Telling him that comes off as insecurity (because it IS)--just enjoy being around him and stop putting pressure on it. He'll believe you want him because your actions confirm it.
Don't try to project an image. Actually be the thing you want to be viewed as, which if you aren't already, means you have some self-improvement projects to work on.
Hope that helps ;)1