I'm officially dating a cheater. I had no idea. He dated someone for 8 years. He said it was a toxic relationship and he cheated on the girl he was with more than once with different people... he eventually broke up with her because she wouldn't break up with him. He went to therapy after that because he was really heart broken and confused in general. He felt really bad about it... he hasn't cheated since he's been in therapy. He's really glad that he saw a counselor too. He said he cheated because he felt insecure about himself and needed the outside validation.
I mean... we haven't had sex and we're not in a serious relationship, but should I cut it off now or give him a chance? How can I ever trust someone like that?
- Never date a cheater no matter how long ago it was.Vote A
- It's okay to date him if it seems like he's changed.Vote B
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Hm... if he genuinely want to change, and is willing to go to thrapy i'd suggest you give him a chance, but with certain demands.
That he's 100% open about it when you two talk, and that if itn's needed again, he goes to see a councelor. Also treat cheating as a dealbreaker. No second chances1