At this point, I am incredibly frustrated. I am 20 and never had a girlfriend. I am as super virgin as you can get. I don't know where to meet girls. Yes, church is good, but I am in class during the college group. I don't have any actual friends either. I just do not know what to do anymore. Here, while other people are dating or having fun, I am sitting on my ass twiddling my thumbs trying to figure out where to begin.
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I have seen a couple other of your questions. Your arn't a happy bunny at the moment and that's fine. But if you arn't happy you need to change somethings. I agree with others that you most won't likely attract girls if you have a lot of things you are happy with. Actually it's not strictly true you probably will, however they will most likely be in a similar boat and be generally unhappy with thier life. Do you want a girlfriend who is sad unhappy and always down? Or someone who is a pleasure and fun to be around? The girl alone shouldn't be the wone to make you happy, that needs to come from you first.
If you are going to hire any sort of coach, perhaps a life coach, someone who can help you learn to find the motivation and tools to pick yourself up and get the things you want in your life?
Have you joined any clubs or groups who meet up socially yet? Once you start to change the other things in your life you arn't happy with, not having friends ect, and start getting out doing things you enjoy, you will probably feel better. You will also then be putting yourself in a situation likely to meet new girls.
Being 20 there is no reason to worry about not having been on a date or being a virgin. don't pressure yourself or feel bad it's not happened yet.
Start to make some small changes for what you see as the better and take it from there.
It is tough being responsible for our own happiness sometimes, but we are. Things don't change unless we do something about it.
You are attractive your doing alright on that front.
It's ok to be down sometimes, as long as you can pull yourself up again.
If you want to be miserable and have a miserable girlfriend and no friends fine, it's your life.
But if you don't, start making some small changes now.0
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