I used to approach 1 girl a day and probably approached 100 girls. I would always show an interest in them by asking about them and kind of getting to know them, but I never once was able to get any phone numbers. Usually I'd start off by saying I thought they were really gorgeous and wanted to say hi and then I'd move into asking about them. Or I'd say something like I noticed you when I walked by earlier and I wanted to come back and say hi and then I'd show an interest and get to know them and talk for 10-15 minutes before asking for a number. The thing is most of these girls would say they had a bf. After I just spent 15 minutes talking to her! I think the next time a girl says that I'm just going to say and your point is? Anyways, girls I don't get it. I'm starting to wonder if all these girls thought I was looking to hookup or something. It was the daytime for the most part that I approached all these girls. haha Help me out please:) Maybe I just need to be a little more balzy.
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it depends on how you approach them, I've noticed a lot of women can tell what your intentions are, and if you come on too strong you're going to make them very uncomfortable. Don't approach a girl with the intentions of trying to date her, approach the girl with the intention of getting to know her and being her friend. Also, It's best not to make comments about their appearances so fast. When I'm at the college and I'm talkign to a girl, I don't talk about how pretty she is, rather I open up by giving a different compliment. If I'm outside having a smoke and she walks over the smoking area I might say something like "hey how's it goin?" after a bit of smalltalk I might say something like "I love that tattoo, freaking awesome. My names Jeff, very nice to meet you", and just give her a gentlemanly ladytype handshake (if that makes any sense, I'm sure you know the type of shake I'm talking about lol), maybe ask her what the tattoo means to her, where she got it, etc. but it's different with everyone. The main thing is, don't be in a rush to find someone man, things happen when you least expect it.0