He didn't invite me. Is this bad news for us? We have been dating for 3 months. He says he isn't a birthday person and that he would rather just sleep (he has two jobs and works all the time because he is saving up for his own place). He moved in here because he didn't have another place to go, not to progress our relationship.
I want to take things slow and I'm happy for him that he has goals that he is working toward.. However I *am* a birthday person and I feel like this is his special day so he should have included me. Am I wrong for that? Should he have at least invited me over?
He was originally going to the mountains to see his grandma with his mom before being put on the work schedule. I haven't met his grandma yet, but he doesn't want me to yet because it's her anniversary with his deceased grandfather so it's an emotional time for her.
I get it but wouldn't meeting someone new help? Or should I just leave it alone? I'm not sure what to think.
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THAT Bday party is NOT the one for you BUT you can hold a Bday party on ANOTHER day that could be memorable (to him) in that it was restful, emotion/drama/travel free and be the oasis he needs to compensate for two jobs! Think now what all that cold entail & when he would be rested enough to enjoy it.2