I'm pretty much a pushover most of the time. People at school try to give me shit but I brush it off but a select few do it seriously because I'm 'an easy target'. How do I become a smooth talker, confident with girls and change my reputation from guy who doesn't get any girls and is considered a failure to a guy who gets with girls and is successful with both women and life?
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To me it sounds like you just want to become more confident, and not necessarily a player. Players are stupid. Being confident =/= being a player.
If you want to become more confident, you have to push your own boundaries a little. To quit being a pushover, simply put your foot down when you've had enough. Don't be afraid of speaking your mind. If you like a girl, go up to her and talk to her. Don't overthink things or make them too complicated for yourself. And lastly, DON'T HURT ANYONE'S FEELINGS ON PURPOSE. Seriously. That's like the thing that everyone hates about players the most. If you want to feel more accepted, hurting people is not the way to go. If anything, hurting people on purpose will only make you an outcast, because nobody likes anyone who goes out of their way to play with other people's feelings. At that point, you won't have anyone else to turn to except for maybe some other players (who are, by the way, douchebags. They don't really make good friends). In the end, being a player is less fruitful than being honest and good. You might get some momentary satisfaction out of it, but if you're looking for something that lasts longer than that, then being a player is not the way to go.4