So I've been seeing this guy for 4 months. We started talking in July and he has been moving things slowly along.
It took us 4 dates to hold hands and 5 dates to kiss. We haven't slept together yet but we do see each other each weekend.
Our last real date was a couple weeks ago. We went mini golfing and he was teasing me the whole time and being playful.
I tried to see him last weekend but 3 times he didn't respond to my texts about seeing each other. It's possible he was actually busy, but why not send a quick reply saying sorry can't see you because I have a lot going on?
Anyway it was odd behaviour for him, as he usually seems interested in hanging out.
So I basically didn't talk to him for a couple days, hoping if he was interested he would reconnect.
But he didn't. However when I messaged him after the 2 days, he responded immediately.
What's up with this?
I said I missed him on the weekend and he responded saying he missed me too.
What is going on?
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I guess he is just shy, don't expect guys to allways be the ones that takes the initiative. Some guys wishes for the girl to be one who askes the boy out.
Just go talk with him, ask him out, be the one who takes the initiative and after that see if he is actually interested0