I was talking to a girl about past relationships and the fact that my last ex is black came up. I could tell that she immediately reacted, even though she didn't say anything.
I've also heard guys online talking about girls being trashy if they dated black guys, and not "wanting them back".
I know that they're probably just insecure losers and racists, but I also know that everyone has some biases that they don't really mean to have, myself included.
So what is your gut reaction to finding that out? Does it cause you to re-evaluate a girl?
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Preconceptions: low self esteem; utterly ignorant of genetics and the differences between the races; no respect for herself or her ancestors; no respect for her culture; actually wanted to have mixed-race children who were ugly, less intelligent than her and who looked nothing like her.
Would I consider her as a potential mother of my children? HELL NO!
It is not such much a case of "once you go black you do not go back", it is, at least among the men whom I know, "once you go black we do not want you back".
Damaged goods. Forever.1
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