Okay, so I'm 18 I weigh 220 pounds and I'm just under a size 16 in jeans. I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, nothing. Guys never pay me much attention. I don't really know why, other than my size. Also I'm pretty quiet so that could contribute as well. But I met a guy a while back who I didn't even like at the beginning, I thought he was nice and intriguing and I wanted to be friends with him, but nothing more. He's kinda dorky looking, which I like, and the biggest thing is that he's smaller than I am which makes me self conscious. I've known him for a couple years now, but only really talked to him more than just a couple words a few days ago, and realized that I really liked him a lot. He's probably the nicest person I've ever met, and the only guy I've ever met who's actually had a conversation with me. We went on a hike with some friends, and he kept holding branches for me and like helping me up some of the hills and idk, he probably does that with everyone but it was just really sweet. I just want to know, do you think I even have a chance with him? Or honestly, with any guys? I think I come off pretty confident to others, but I'm pretty self conscious about my size and have always been afraid of boys because of it.
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Its the size of your heart that matters! attraction is more than skin deep and relationships are built on many things! if he held branches for you he probably likes you! thats good! Be confident its the sexiest thing!. I Dated a girl that was 6'2" and i am 5'11" she was also probably heavier than me! but she approached me with confidence and i just felt so attracted to her. Best of luck you sound like a beautiful person!1