I like a girl and she seems to think I don't like her after I had a convo with her Sister where I said I prefer more introverted people and that her sister as an extrovert may at times be a bit much for me to handle.
The sister then went and told her what I said and the girl brought it and sounded a bit saddened and said "I can be quiet, I can change" and that made me feel bad because she shouldn't have to change who she is and I shouldn't have made her feel that way. I wasn't intentionally being mean.
I saw her yesterday and we had a brief chat before she had to leave and I said "It's a shame you have to go, I enjoyed our brief chat" and she replied with "Yeah right, you're probably delighted to be getting rid of me", I laughed and said "I'm heart broken" and she left.
She's also told me that she accepts that I don't like her and that it hurts that she had to hear it from her Sister.
But this is not true, I do like her and though I pretend I don't, I only do that because I was unsure whether she genuinely liked me or not.
So what can I do?
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You, my friend are in a situation I call a Reverse Conundrum.. its like you fucked up, then you turned it over and fucked it up more lol. here's what i suggest..
look towards the end of your post.. there is a line "but this is not true,..." and it ends with "... me or not"
i suggest you copy that and send it to her... or better yet... say it face to face.
thats your only way out brother.. or you can continue these games till the frustration gets to you... your choice.0
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