What should I do and she even broke up with me to make a point that my proposal is not for the right reason, We just got a baby girl three weeks ago she wants to be with me but not be in a relationship for now. Please some one help why is she doing this to me if she loves me as she says
Why did she say no to my marriage proposal twice now but she still wants to be in a relationship with me?
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Sounds like you answered your own question.
People get married because they're in love and want to share their lives together.
You appear to have proposed because the two of you screwed up while having sex, and ended up with a baby. Twenty years ago, people in your situation were expected to propose and raise the child together because there was a stigma about children born out of wedlock.
Today's society is a different story. There are swaths of people - just like you - who have a child accidentally. People don't bat an eyelash when this happens. So it's perfectly acceptable for the two of you to remain unmarried and raise a child together.
Translation: She does not want to marry you, and probably never intended to in the first place. In her eyes, you two are not in love - which is why she does not accept your proposal.
Many people in a relationship will know whether their current partner is marriage material or not. I can say I've been in a few myself - where I knew from day 1 that they were just pretty playtoys for a year or two, and I would never end up marrying them.7
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