OK I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years. throughout the seven years I've been a friend on his Facebook for maybe 2 months at a time then he would block me and delete me as a friend. He says that Facebook is a social network and girlfriend and boyfriend should not be on Facebook as friends. When I went on his Facebook page from a friend of mine's page just to see what type of mess he has on his page. I've noticed that he has a bunch of trashy females that have no clothes on and he's commenting on everybody's page like he's a single man. Now my question is why would a man that is in a committed relationship with 3 children need to have this type of when he's already in a relationship? I just had our third child 6 weeks ago and he just added me as a friend on Facebook after 6 years and I questioned him about the comments that he made to multiple girls pages (mind you the girls are not strangers he either date of them are just f****d them before) his response "He's grown and its just Facebook"! I feel no REAL man that really loves his woman would do this. Am I wrong?
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They say that the first reaction is normally the correct one. He is definitely cheating. Even if you think about other girls, you are not being true to your partner. You are definitely not wrong to have your suspicions and unfortunately, they are not suspicions. He does not sound as if he respects you and I would encourage you to leave him. I know it would be hard as a single mum but I think being a single mum and doing it tough would be better than being with a total douchebag like him. I will pray for you so that God can give you an idea of what to do. Good luck with everything x1