Long story short, my girlfriend recently did something with another guy while she was drunk and I was hurt badly but I forgave her.
I took an oath with her that neither of us would ever drink ever again, I told her If she ever drinks again even a little bit, I would leave and we would only be friends. She got upset because of it.
I'm not asking for pity, just is it too much of a demand? Be honest
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I don't think there's anything wrong with that, since you included yourself in
the no drinking thing not just her. However, I know you said "she did something
with a guy while she was drunk". How do you know that she won't do the samething
again, only this time sober? I get that you want to prevent another cheating incident
and all. But, whether she's drunk as skunk or stone cold sober. There's nothing
stopping her from hurting you again. Truth is, if she did once and you forgave.
She might just do it again. I'm not telling you this to freak you out, I just think you should
be aware. But, no I don't think what you asking of her is too much. Because, as I said
you're participating in it too. So, nothing wrong with that.0