So i've gone out with this guy twice and he has never paid once for me. I obviously don't expect him to pay for me everytime of course, but shouldn't he pay for the first time at least? They always say a guy should pay for the first date, especially if he was the one who asked the girl out. I decided to give him another chance after the first time (since he mentioned 'hang out' so it probably wasn't a date) but it's still like this the second time (when he did mentioned 'date'). We've never been to a restaurant for both, so the bill wasn't much either. I'm really not sure whether i should continue seeing him (besides he has been 5-10 mins late for both times) although i'm afraid i'm starting to have feelings for him. Or am i wrong for thinking this behavior as a bad sign?
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As a general rule I think the asker should do the paying, and if he/she is flat broke then you should just do something that doesn't involve a lot of money (those are the best dates anyway!)
Even on the first date I'll at least offer to split the bill; and on any dates after that I'll start insisting that we split it. If a guy were to ask me out and not even offer to pay I would take it as a sign that he's not really invested. Same goes for a girl who asks a guy out. "Hey, do you want to go out tomorrow night and pay for both of us? That'd be swell." No thanks.0