I usually take week or two to get to know her and especially get to know the details about her and investing time in building a rapport. I ask them out on a just friendly meeting. If I feel that whatever woman I was interpreting so far matches an actual woman. I let them know that I am interested in them more than friend. I ask them to suggest the time for the next meeting only if they can also feel the attraction towards me more than a friend.
If I really like someone I just let them know (without wasting time in testing via mind games or being husy wussy about it). that I do like them right away and give them a freedom to choose. Or let's say I just ask them to follow their heart.
I set the generous timeline like a month or so to get back to me with just a date and time as I can plan what to do on the date. I say clearly, I do like you but I love your freedom of choice. Its OK for me if you don't want to date me or don't find me attractive. There are 3 billion other women on this planet.
Being aloof, or being husy wussy is a huge turn off for me. I keep my life simple and straight forward. I don't let girls do that and I give them a chance to change it. I don't expect to text me for hours but one or two text of simple "hi" or "how was your day?" Is highly expected at least four times a week. I prefer to talk in person.
If I am interested, I show care, respect and affection i dont want a girl who finds those traits as boring. The only exciting thing or point of theor self validation about their life is to find out if guy does really care for them. I dont have a life to waste.
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Woman, how would you see this approach if I was approaching you with it?
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