My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 month now.
I am worried for him. He is very good looking but always looks tired & as if he hasn't slept for days.
He has dark circles too & he never looks very fresh & happy.
He looks dull
Always looks tired and sleep deprived. He also loses weight easily.
He gained muscle & he was living at a different place for 11 months. Inspite of hectic schedule he gained weight & looked healthy.
He couldnt even go to the gym frequently yet gained weight.
But in returning home, he lost all the muscle & has now become stick thin like he was before.
He looks famished. He has some sadness in his life and can be lost in his own world even when surrounded by people
What could be his issue? Why does he seem like this? He sleeps really late mostly around 1-2am & sometymes stays awake till 4am & tweets or updates statuses on FB.
What is the problem? He never tells me anything. I am 20 & he's 30
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It sounds like a good ol fashioned depression to me. And yeah, for some it manifests in the form of sleep deprivation, rapid weight loss, and a look of sadness. What worries me is that he isn't even hiding it...
He won't tell you what it is, you say? So it's safe to asume you've talked with him and tried to pry the truth out of him? Have you tried talking with his friends about it? It's not the ideal solution, but he needs help, and you need to at least try. Try to find out what's wrong, and try to help him.
He needs it, he needs you.0