I'm interested in this girl and we've been hanging out quite a bit lately, sometimes one on one and other times with other people. She has many guy friends, not an issue with me but my issue is mostly the inconsistency with her. There's been a few times where I was going somewhere and asked her to come along with me but she would say she's busy or something along those lines. However for bigger events that may take up quite a bit of time like concerts or nightclubs she'll come along and we'll have the best time ever. Holding hands, laughing, hugging, and arm around her, all that good stuff. Some flirting goes on. When I started seeing signals that she may be interested I took it as a good ahead and asked her out but she couldn't because of legitimate reasons. Even after denying my few requests of dates she still is around talking to me and going to events with me. I've never had to deal with a girl like this, this girl is very independent and outgoing but at the same time shy. I'm usually used to girls who gives me very clear signals they're interested by making time for me asking me to go places. This girl do asks me to go places but when I ask back she's usually evading it, at least on the smaller scale things like drinks or dinners. Another thing is she has complimented me before on my features and even told me something reminded her of me. My main concern is if this girl just has a huge filter to filter out guys that are there to mess around and waste her time or if she's not that interested? I've never dealt with this type of girl so I'm very confused.
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You are offering her date's and she knows this thats why she is saying no to dinner and little things, concerts and other events are usually not seen as dates. She has you in the friendzone and she is not leading you up a path to nowhere she is trying to make it clear that friends is all it is. She obviously doesn't want to hurt you by coming straight out and saying im not interested in being your gf as this may cause distance between you and she enjoys your company as a friend. Im sorry but for now its friends or nothing and you shouldn't try to push it if you actually do care for her.0