There was this girl who I was acquaintaces with for a while in attempt to try to date her and got turned down every time I tried to do so in March and August 2014, and clearly she wasn't interested and wasn't really showing any signs.
Now there were other girls I was interested and asked out too (all of which turned me down), but this one girl... I always have images of her floating around in my head for some reason and sexually fantasizing about her is still the most efficient way for me to masturbate and I still feel those sparks whenever I look at her or am near her. I don't know... she just pushes all my attraction buttons somehow.
Is this normal, even for a girl who didn't show interest? And when will this pass? This has been true since February 2014 and even after getting rejected for the second time in August 2014, and I don't have any intention of pursuing her anymore... but still the images won't leave my head...
Most Helpful Girl
You just have to get over her0
Most Helpful Guy
let me tell a shortnized story: `the thing or things you run from the hardest and forest, you want the most...` at the end you will get what you deserve, yes I do have fantasies to of this particular girl who tossed me in the bin of depleted love, but that makes me want her even harder... normal? why not, of course... it`s all mental and psychological warfare and the heart is the victim at the end. Just don`t forget to keep fantasy fantasy and reality reality or you might just get stuck in inbetween.0