He's not gay its just I've developed strong feelings for him.
He's quite obese. Probably the biggest in our school and no girls like him. We're both part of the outcast group in school.
He's always there for me and I feel safe and protected around him.
I find him attractive and we have so much in common but like he always says he's not into me that way, I never confronted him about it and I'm scared of rejection.
Is it possible that he might be too insecure to say he likes me? Or does he just not?
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If he told you straight out, "I'm not into you," then you have to take him at his word. Then again, he might be deflecting because he doesn't want to get involved with anyone right now. When I was fat I felt a great deal of shame over how I looked. I really wouldn't have been comfortable letting a girl touch me or see me naked. Either way, though, I think you're going to have to move on from him. He's just not ready for what you want.0