If he doesn't know any women or have any female friends. If yes, how? Since a woman won't just land in front of him.
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I can understand your situation, because when I was your age what you wrote could have described me. The problem with females in your age range is that most of them want the bad boys. The bad boys usually have a two-digit IQ, no prospects and no future outside of welfare housing or a trailer park, but the entertainment industry has programmed girls with the idea that the stereotypes portrayed by the likes of James Dean (someone your age might have to look up who he was) and the bad boy characters in any number of Hollyweird movies and television shows are the most desirable of men. Thus, in the mind of the young female a scumbag, who is a borderline sociopath and does not have a future, is their dream man. If you are white the situation is at its worst, because there are few creatures on this planet as stupid, impressionable and lacking in threat perception as the young white female. This is what serial killers such as Ted Bundy rely upon when they select their victims.
If you are intelligent, educated, clean cut, well mannered and have a good future ahead of you, very few females in your age range are going to be interested. Sorry, but that is how it is. Females in this place will probably jump all over me for saying that, so try this to test my statement. Go to a nightclub, or any other social venue, sit in a corner and watch the girls. Watch how many decent looking young men approach them and are rejected. Then take note of how she reacts to the obvious scumbags. Odds are, she will reject plenty of decent young men all night (while complaining to her friends about "where are all the nice guys") and go home with a bad boy. Ignore what women say, watch what they do. There is a big difference.
The best option for someone your age is to place yourself in situations in which you will be in proximity to a better class of young woman. Try the local churches, which almost certainly will have youth groups. Get involved in amateur theatre.1
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