I'm curious. I'm almost 25 and have had hookups, flings and a bunch of dates but no serious relationship or official girlfriend. I don't let it get me down or keep me from trying, but here's the thing a few of the girls I've met off dating sites and would ask me when my last relationship was and I lied saying it was 6 months to over a year ago.
I feel like it's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. Obviously, if i lied about it and they found out they might wonder what else i lied about. If I tell them the truth then they might think there's something wrong with me. Is it best just to say I've dated, but nothing serious?
I don't talk about it or make it known either, especially very early on. But that being said, would it be a red flag or dealbreaker if a guy you liked was 25 and never been in a relationship?
The thing is I've gone on plenty of dates and it's not like I'm trying to get with as many women as I can, but rather see who's the best fit and it's just never panned out.
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25 is not that old, especially relationship-wise. You're still figuring yourself out. You could just say you've dated but haven't really had any serious or long term relationships. I wouldn't see it as a red flag and if the girl does, she might not be the type of girl you want to be with.0