Hey, i just wanted an opinion. Basically I got talking to this guy and we have our first date pretty soon. But in a recent conversation i asked him how many sexual partners he's had and he said over 40 even adding that it wasn't a lot and he knows people that have slept with a lot more, bearing in mind he's 24. I'm seriously put off now but I don't know how to say it even though we have a date coming up. Am I being shallow? its not like we want a relationship so im not losing much, but he convinced me that sleeping with 40 women wasn't a lot and is determined to increase this number. And i feel like he has no morals whatsoever. Am I being old fashioned or shallow? Opinions please?
Dating a guy who's had many sexual partners?
What Guys Said 4
If you're not wanting a relationship, then does it really matter?3
You're not being shallow. I guess it depends on how you feel deep down about it. On one side it's a lot of girls but on the other side he was honest about it. It sounds like you've already made your mind up. Good luck0
My roommate claimed to have over 120 and he just turned 23.0
"Am I being old fashioned or shallow?" Old fashioned certainly, shallow perhaps. If that's something that you can't look past, the so be it. But I don't see why it should necessarily be a problem, sex is fun and some men get when they can - I don't see why people need to read more into it than that.0
What Girls Said 4
Eww no. Personally, I wouldn't even consider a guy who's had that many.1
No, you're not being shallow. I wouldn't even go on a 2nd date with a guy like that. A guys that doesn't have sexual self-control and thinks adding numbers is something proud to be of isn't bf material to me.
I don't sleep around around and have only been with a past bf. Having 40+ partners in your 20's is not the norm for the average man.1
I don't think you're being shallow at all, girl! I think he's certainly exaggerating that number, because that's a LOT. Like it seems to me that he doesn't even give a shit about who he's been with he just wants to break a record or something. He kind of sounds like a douchebag, so I wouldn't even go on a date with him. Also think about the extreme risk of STDs and things that he's probably carrying, yuck!1
For me too many is a turn off bcoz I might be one of his collection soon hahaha0
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