He said we are great friends, after I confessed my feelings!!!

So I asked the guy I had a crush on about his recent break up, about whether he wanted them to get back together, and also told him how I feel. His response was that we are great friends, and that was it. That things didn't have to change, even though I poured my heart out to him. I told him how I felt in person, the over text, he told me not to over-analyze this and then started flirting with me again. Am I the rebound, even though he is saying no? Do I get avoid him, or do I have to be a mature adult and actually talk to him next time I see him? He is 9 years older than me, and I dont want to ask him out, I already put myself out there.


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  • Maybe it was too early to ask him, which is why he avoided the question. Or he may simply wanted to say he wasn't interested without hurting your feelings.


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